Silk’n Flash and Go Home Laser Hair Removal System Just in Time for Summer

When you’re a socialite, most of your summer appearances are either poolside or beachside.  As you can imagine, hair removal is of the utmost importance.  Shaving and waxing aren’t permanent solutions and the cost of professional laser hair removal treatments are in the thousands.  So I’m psyched to have discovered Silk’n Flash and Go, a permanent home hair removal system that is both FDA cleared and dermatologist recommended.  Using safe light-based technology known as Home Pulsed Light™ (HPL), this system utilizes optical energy to disable hair growth in selected areas.  In order to achieve such a thermal effect, the hair shaft needs to selectively absorb light energy and transform it into heat.  This phenomenon that will make your summer far less stressful is known as the theory of selective photothermolysis.  I’m sure my dad, the chemist, will be very proud of me for this very scientific explanation.

Compared to professional spa treatments, Silk’n Flash and Go, retailing for around $300, is cost-effective which is very helpful for those still aspiring.  It is also one of the few home hair removal devices approved for use on the face and other sensitive regions like the bikini area.  So it’s ultra-sensitive and can be used to treat both small and large areas.  Starting with the fact that no appointments are required for this treatment, Silk’n Flash and Go is simple to use, quick, and clean with minimal set up required.  The pulse speed ensures quick treatment and silky smooth skin without ingrown hairs or razor burn.  I’ll be sure to bring this along with me on my weekend trips for all of summer 2012.

Silk’n wants everyone to have a socialite summer.  Therefore, they are offering 20% off their Silk’n Flash and Go System to all Aspiring Socialite readers with the discount code NYNY. 

*Disclaimer: This is a sponsored post, but the opinions are all my own.   

*Silk’n Flash and Go will not work on individuals with dark skin tones and is not recommended for their use (if the skin tone is too dark the Flash and Go cannot detect the difference between the hair and the skin and will not be as effective).

My New York in Instagrams

So I finally got an iPhone (I know it’s shameful how long it took), but this phone upgrade has truly marked an upgrade in my life.  I’ve come to realize that every time I use Instagram, I’m holding a billion dollars. That app is absolutely amazing.  If you ask me, Facebook purchased it for a steal.  Today, I walked through my neighborhood on Manhattan’s west side shooting Instagrams of my surroundings.  Seeing them on Instagram was as magical as when I saw New York for the first time.

Above you will find the Empire State Building to the left and the view from outside my door on Ninth Ave. to the right.  Since this past weekend was absolutely beautiful, I took a stroll through the High Line, a city park built on old elevated train tracks.  Here are some of the highlights of my High Line trip:

(Left) A butterfly at the High Line
(Right) The Diane von Furstenberg store in Meatpacking

(Left) The Standard Hotel
(Right) A billboard that explains everything you need to know about life in Manhattan

Happy Mother’s Day Mom!

Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms out there!  Throughout my life, people have come and gone, but the only thing that has remained constant is my mother, Renee.  Originally from Caracas, Venezuela (Yes, I’ve been to Venezuela and the beaches are awesome), my mom came to the United States to finish school and ended up staying.  I’m so grateful to have her in my life and for everything she’s taught me about love, culture, and respect.  One of our favorite socialite activities to do with my sister, Caroline, is shopping, followed by a long lunch, followed by even more shopping.  We also very much enjoy exotic travels.

Here we are playing on the swing on a sunny spring day much like this one at the home where I grew up in Wilmington, DE.  So much time has gone by and so much has changed in our lives since then, but the unconditional love of a mother is timeless like the works of Coco Chanel.  I love you Mom!  Thank you for always supporting my socialite dreams!

Mother’s Day Gift Ideas

My mom and I are super close so I couldn’t be happier that Mother’s Day is upon us.  Sometimes I have no idea how I’d survive my crazy life here in New York without those late night phone calls I make to her almost nightly where I’m able to get all my problems off my chest.  It’s amazing how one simple phone call can always make me believe that tomorrow is another day.  Thanks mom for always supporting me in my dream to live like a New York City socialite!

Here are my top gift picks for Mother’s Day 2012:

1.  C’est La Vie Metal Bangle: A love between a mother and child is unlike any other.  This bracelet is a reminder of that.  Engraved are not only the words “I love you,” but “C’est La Vie – Whatever will be will be.”  I don’t know about you, but my mom always reminds me of that.

2.  Dear Mom Book: These books with adorable and inspiring pictures and quotes always make me cry.  It’s kind of embarrassing when it happens in the middle of the bookstore.  But, I’m sure it will make your mom cry too.

3.  Love Chloe Perfume: As one of my all time favorite fragrances, I highly recommend giving your mother some Love this Mother’s Day.

4.  Dian Malouf Mom Ring: This sweet rustic ring is a cute accessory for mom in engraved sterling silver.

5.  Tory Burch Cosmetics Case: If it’s Tory Burch, you may want to get one for you too.

6.  Cynthia H Designs Unconditional Love Bracelet: Your mother loves you unconditionally and now she can wear her heart on her sleeve.

7.  DVF Alexandra Oversized Sunglasses: As a child, your mom always made sure you were safe from the harsh rays of the sun by making you wear sunscreen.  Now, you can do the same for her as you protect her from the sun and the perils of wearing non-designer sunglasses.

The Yoga Cocktail

In an effort to relax and rejuvenate, I’ve been getting back into yoga.  Having never been talented at sports, I’ve grown to really enjoy yoga as a personal uncompetitive experience.  Though I love a good Hot Vinyasa class (traditional Hot Yoga is too hot), I’ve found that I just may not be as spiritual as I once believed myself to be.

In my last yoga class, the instructor announced that they were holding an upcoming yoga retreat in the Catskills.  It would involve hiking, yoga, and other spiritual activities.  My first thought was, “That’s perfect! Where do I sign up?”  When I went to the instructor after my end of class meditation to get more information, she said that she forgot to mention that it was a silent retreat.  As in you can’t talk at all for the entire weekend.  As much as I love meditation, I don’t think I could comfortably be alone with my thoughts for that long.  I really need more of a resort style yoga retreat where you wake up at noon, take a yoga class, drink a cocktail, and spend the rest of the afternoon tanning on the beach (with sunscreen of course).

I once had these awesome (healthy-ish) cocktails at Fashion Week that I’ve renamed The Yoga Cocktail.  Consisting of a delightful mixture of Vitamin Water Zero and Organic Vodka, you should try one of these low-cal concoctions ASAP.

*Be sure to hydrate first before engaging in any activities after yoga.

Socialites in Sepia

Friends always make friends feel beautiful.  Amy and I kicked off the weekend with another one of our famous socialite photo shoots.  It came out so well that I had to share it with the world.  Even as 20-somethings living in New York City, I guess you never really stop playing dress up.

Socialite smiles!

Hats off to us!

Just dance!

A celebration of classic America

Panda sock!

Yes, I Have a T-Shirt Line & You Can Win One!

Having a fab t-shirt line is the first step to having a fashion empire. Everyone needs a good summer t-shirt that makes a statement about who you are. So I’m giving away one of my lovely chandelier t-shirts in blue blood blue to a few lucky fans.

To win your very own blue on blue Aspiring Socialite T-Shirt, all you need to do is complete the following three steps:

1.  Comment on this post with your t-shirt size and a statement about what makes you an Aspiring Socialite.

2.  Like Aspiring Socialite on Facebook.

3.  Follow @AspireSocialite on Twitter.

*For a full collection of my Aspiring Socialite Tees bearing my iconic logo, please visit my online store.  Every shirt design is named after a celebrity.  Designs for women, men, and children are available.

Deadly Cocktails at Times Scare!

New York can be a scary place. In the few years I’ve lived here, I’ve had enough experiences with general and criminal insanity to give me quite a socialite scare. But, for some reason I keep coming back for more. I should really start writing a book just of New York stories. Over the weekend, I made a spontaneous Saturday afternoon visit with Cocktail Chic to Times Scare, a haunted attraction off of Times Square where it’s Halloween 365 days a year.  The bars inside look like the sets of two distinct horror movies.  For the right clothing line, this could be the perfect venue for a fashion shoot.

Living directly off Times Square in Hell’s Kitchen, I’ve walked by this place hundreds of times, but always shrugged it off as a tourist attraction not worthy of my now native New Yorker attention.  However, being a huge fan of horror movies and spontaneity, Ashley and I decided to go in and have a drink on a whim.  At first glance of the delightfully creepy decor, we realized that Times Scare was the place to be for a bloody-looking cocktail on a Saturday afternoon.  We’ll be back for another killer cocktail long before the zombie apocalypse.

The Kill Room – Party at your own risk!

Killer candelabras in The Kill Room

Inside The Parlour of the Paranormal

Skulls!

Creepy mirror with a reflection of the Parlour of the Paranormal bar

Betsey Johnson Bankrupt

When outrageous fashion designer, Betsey Johnson, recently declared bankruptcy, she did what any socialite would do and threw herself a bankruptcy party.  The brand that has been owned by Steve Madden since 2010, filed for Chapter 11 bankruptcy protection in the mist of $4.1 Million in outstanding balances owed to vendors, manufacturers, service providers and the list goes on.  That makes my credit card balance look miniscule.

Most of the 63 Betsey Johnson stores are expected to close, but don’t lose heart because the brand will still be carried at Saks Fifth Avenue, Bloomingdales, and Nordstrom for those in need of an over the top neon fashion fix.  Betsey will continue to design and Steve Madden will continue to support the Betsey Johnson empire in this time of trouble.

Even socialites and top fashion designers can fall on hard times.  It’s up to us to pick each other up when this happens.  Not because it’s good karma, but because it’s the right thing to do.  Betsey Johnson needs all the help she can get.  Here are two amazingly outrageous outfits consisting of head to toe Betsey Johnson.

1.  Betsey Johnson Eyewear: For the sunny days by the sea.

2.  Betsey Johnson Yacht Club Anchor Earrings: A tribute to your nautical ways.

3.  Betsey Johnson Sail Away Tote: Come sail away with style!

4.  Betsey Johnson Pink Label Colorblock Tank Dress: This red, white, and blue number is perfect for a Fourth of July party.

5.  Betsey Johnson Yacht Club Stripe Bow Stretch Bracelet: Cute & preppy!

6.  Betsey Johnson Women’s Casey with Rhinestone Open-Toe Pumps: Open-toed heels are not recommended for actual yachting.

1.  Betsey Johnson Spring Bloom Large Flower Stretch Ring: The perfect addition to any spring outfit.

2.  Betsey Johnson Florely Blush Satin Pumps: Flowery pale pink peep toes with ankle support.

3.  Betsey Johnson It’s a Toss-Up Dress: This whimsical pink and white dress has a lovely accentuation of the waist.

4.  Betsey Johnson Jungle Book Frog Stud Earrings: I had to include these in the outfit because they remind me of The Princess and the Frog fairy tale.

5.  Betsey Johnson Bow Tied Top Zip Handbag: When you’re trying to achieve an ultra-girly Betsey Johnson style, bows are perfect on top of pink flowers.

6.  Betsey Johnson Betsey’s Secret Garden Flower Cuff: This adorable cuff has me wanting to attend a garden party ASAP.

The Craziest Cab Ride Ever Caught on Video!

This is the craziest NYC (Hoboken) cab ride I have ever been on.  Sadly, it wasn’t the Cash Cab. I guess this guy is a cab driver/DJ who runs a night club on wheels. My socialite life is too insane for words sometimes. That’s me in the front seat.