The Giving Keys

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I’ll never forget the feeling of hope and satisfaction I felt the day I picked up the keys to my first Manhattan apartment. So when I discovered The Giving Keys, a charitable organization that employs people transitioning out of homelessness and spreads messages of hope through meaningful accessories, I knew I had to share its message with others.  It all started when singer/songwriter, Caitlin Crosby, was wearing a key necklace in a hotel room in New York City.  It was then that she got the idea to start engraving used and recycled keys with inspirational messages and turning them into necklaces.  When Caitlin started selling them on tour, she found herself constantly scrambling to find used keys, chains, and clasps because they would always sell out.  While on stage, Caitlin would talk to the audience about embracing their flaws and soon realized that in a way, we’re all like keys in that we are each unique, yet flawed and awkward.  Seeing that the keys could be a source of hope and love, Caitlin began to encourage people to pay it forward by giving their keys to someone they felt needed the message engraved on it.  But, still something was missing.

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When Caitlin met Cera and Rob, a homeless couple, while walking down Hollywood Blvd, she found the missing link to The Giving Keys that made them mean so much more.  She took them to dinner that night and listened to their stories about having spent the majority of their lives on the streets.  The next day, she asked them to be her business partners.  She began meeting the couple on street corners and in alley ways giving them cash in exchange for bags of keys.  Soon Cera and Rob saved enough money to get their own apartment, Rob got his GED, and Cera got a job at the San Diego Zoo.  Both still work at The Giving Keys part-time.  As the business grew even more, Caitlin teamed up with United Way and PATH to help more people transitioning out of homelessness support themselves and find a permanent place to call home.

Every time I hear the story of how The Giving Keys came to be, I get tears in my eyes.  Accessories often hold deeper meanings and these keys are the epitome of this concept.  I encourage anyone looking for a meaningful gift for someone in need of inspiration to order a Giving Key engraved with a message of courage and strength.  Once they have taken in the message, they can pass the key along to someone else in need of the same inspiration.  All are encouraged to share their stories on The Giving Keys website in order to further inspire others.

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A Diamond in the Rough

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Over the weekend, I spent my Saturday afternoon volunteering at The Meatloaf Kitchen, a soup kitchen that serves fresh wholesome meals restaurant style to New Yorkers down on their luck.  It’s truly an amazing program and a much-needed addition to this city.  When I tweeted that I was spending the morning volunteering, I was very touched to see my Twitter blowing up with messages of how giving back made me a true socialite.  However, I think that I may have gotten more out of it than the people I helped while handing out clothes in the Meatloaf Boutique.

In the process of being one of the Meatloaf Kitchen’s resident stylists for the day, I came across these vintage Alexander McQueen flats and couldn’t help, but snap a picture.  I wonder if they were designed by McQueen himself when he was still alive.  Having been incredibly touched by my experience volunteering, I plan on going back once a month.

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CFDA/Stylitics Dream Closet Benefiting Fashion Targets Breast Cancer Begins Today!

Beginning today (Dec. 3rd), Stylitics, the leading virtual closet platform on the web, and the Council of Fashion Designers of America (CFDA) are teaming up to raise money for Fashion Targets Breast Cancer.  Along with supporting an amazing cause, they are also giving away a Dream Closet filled with top of the line designer handbags, business attire, workout gear, accessories, jeans, jewelry, and more.  Over 40 top brands are represented in the Dream Closet including Diane Von Furstenberg, Tory Burch, Theyskens’ Theory, Helmut Lang, Alexander Wang, Thakoon, Rebecca Minkoff, House of Harlow, Topshop, and many more.  The closet is showcased on the Stylitics website and is completely browseable and shoppable through most of the month of December.  The winner will be chosen at random from eligible entries on December 24th.

Dying to support a good cause and a win a new wardrobe just in time for the new year?  You can enter by purchasing a Fashion Targets Breast Cancer t-shirt for $34.99 with 100% of the proceeds benefitting the Fashion Targets Breast Cancer Foundation.  You can also enter to win the closet of every socialite’s dream for free by clicking here.  Best of luck and thanks for supporting such a great cause.  Check out the many outfits you could win:

 

Support the Children’s Scholarship Fund with Pamella Roland

Getting the education you deserve can be expensive and having the opportunity to go to the school of your choice is truly a gift.  I for one will always be thankful for and paying off my college education.  That’s why I wanted to spread the word about a fashionable opportunity to support the gift of education.  The Children’s Scholarship Fund (CSF) is hosting an online auction thanks to a generous donation from Pamella Roland. The winner will choose between a Pamella Roland sleeveless chiffon paneled full-length gown or knee-length dress with a bateau neckline. The gown or dress will also be tailor-made in the size and color of the winner’s choice. Valued at $2,145, the opening bid begins at $500 (with a Buy New Price of $1,890) and is available for bid through December 22nd. All proceeds from the sale go towards funding CSF scholarships and a bid of just $1,890 will put one low income child on the path to a brighter future.

To Bid on a custom-made Pamella Roland design and help a low-income child receive a quality education, visit the online auction today. Happy bidding!

Online donations for CSF and bidding are also available through the Children’s Scholarship Fund’s FACEBOOK.

Socialites Against Cyberbullying

It is about time we deleted the drama and uploaded the love. Socialites may be known for their drama, but bullying both on and offline is never the socialite way. I was very touched by a recent campaign by ABC Family and Seventeen Magazine to Delete Digital Drama across the web.  Together, they are calling teens who are victims of this horrific trend not to respond and to delete all bullying-related posts.  This powerful campaign comes just in time for the premiere of ABC Family’s much-anticipated original movie, Cyberbully, staring Emily Osment (pictured left wearing the signature [delete] t-shirt) as Taylor Hillridge, a teen whose life is ruined by cyberbullying.

Today, I am using my online socialite status to [delete] cyberbullying from the Internet.  Believe it or not, this issue hits very close to home.  Long before the days of Facebook, when AOL chimed “You’ve Got Mail” and “Goodbye” on a dial-up system that took over your phone line, I found myself a victim of cyberbullying.  To this day, I still can’t stand the sound AOL Instant Messager makes when you receive an IM.  In fact, it terrifies me.  However, even in my adult life, I have come across the occasional digital bully.  Ironically, the Internet has given the self-confidence that I carry with me on the streets of New York,  I now use it as a place to promote myself and others positively.  Technology is here to make us better people (and better shoppers.)  Therefore, bullying and negativity have no place on the web.  So [delete,] [delete,] and [delete.]

Cyberbully will premiere on July 17th at 8/7c on ABC Family.  If you are a victim of cyberbullying, remember that you are not alone and that the people bullying you are probably just jealous. Also, remember that what you put out on the Internet will be your legacy. Your words and actions will remain online long after you die. So, before you put anything online ask yourself one question: Is this how I would like to be remembered for eternity?